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"A soulmate is someone who has locks that fit our keys, and keys to fit our locks. When we feel safe enough to open the locks, our truest selves step out and we can be completely and honestly who we are; we can be loved for who we are and not for who we're pretending to be. Each unveils the best part of the other. No matter what else goes wrong around us, with that one person we’re safe in our own paradise. Our soulmate is someone who shares our deepest longings, our sense of direction. When we’re two balloons, and together our direction is up, chances are we’ve found the right person. Our soulmate is the one who makes life come to life."

I came upon this quote while surfing the net, it just occurred to me that there is a whole lotta truth to it. I have been reading a bit, well okay not a bit but a lot of fanfics lately and well I've been contemplating a lot about relationships. In a relationship, obviously there should be love, but there is more to it...respect, individuality and trust. A relationship wouldn't survive with just love, IMO, it should have all four elements to be a considered a healthy one. If it lacks one of these four things then there's bound to be trouble. Also the other day, I was reading the comics section of MB and I chanced upon a proverb/saying, "Faults are thick where love is thin.", here is yet another proof that love may be present in a relationship but if all you do is fight and find faults in each other then you should start thinking about where you guys are heading. I know that fanfics are, of course, a bit exaggerated, it being fictional and all; but I know there is more to it than its "kilig" factor. It shows us, how love should be, could be and would be if we just took the time to ponder on the more important things. Moreover, being together doesn't mean that you are not entitled to be an individual anymore. In a relationship, you should be given the chance to grow and bloom to what you want / could be. The limits in a relationship should in turn have limits to itself. Being a couple should not deny you from being yourself, it should in fact be an inspiration to be who you are because in the first place, that's what you guys liked about each other. So for heaven's sake, be an inspiration and not a desperation.

"The worst lies are the lies we tell ourselves. We live in denial of what we do, even what we think. We do this because we're afraid. We fear we will not find love, and when we find it we fear we'll lose it. We fear that if we do not have love we will be unhappy."

Think! Think! Think! We had better make our minds up before we go insane...hahahaha. It's always about fear...fear...fear and more fear. Fear of being alone, fear of being left behind and fear of being rejected are the most common fears when it comes to love. I am slowly learning that you shouldn't infest you lives with such fears because they will only eat you up and leave you with...NOTHING! You have got to get the courage to go for what you want, be with who you wanna be (hopefully they'll feel the same ^^), in short just take a chance! We only live once (but I've been praying that there really is a next life >.<) and so we should live our lives to the fullest. We should always look at the brighter side of life, being optimistic about stuff will greatly help the outcome of your life. By being optimistic, you can envision your desired life, but it shouldn't end there, you should try to find a way to achieve that goal...you gotta work your butts off to get it! You can't just idly stand by and wish or hope that things will come out as you imagined them to be. You have got to take action. I've been thinking a lot lately... I guess that's it for now...bitin ba...hehehe...later...

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